Here are a few links to help customize windows.

http://www.stardock.com/stardock/articles/skinprimer/skinprimer2002.html (http://www.stardock.com/stardock/articles/skinprimer/skinprimer2002.html)

http://www.wincustomize.com/index.aspx?u=0 (http://www.wincustomize.com/index.aspx?u=0)

http://www.canadiancontent.net/tech/downloads/Windows+Customization+Programs/ (http://www.canadiancontent.net/tech/downloads/Windows+Customization+Programs/)

http://www.winmatrix.com/ (http://www.winmatrix.com/)

I have used the win customize software. It was okay. Mine was an old version. They may have improved. Worst thing about them is that all the cool things you have to pay for...lol